kathygreen
08-01-2007, 07:57 AM
I am living in the UK whilst my partner is working in Adelaide. He's given my loads of reasons lately to suspect he's been playing around. I have tried the obvious approach of asking him directly but he just denies it. I am not going to get the truth out of him. The worry of it all is making me really ill. I had a nervous breakdown last year and I can't continue like this without risking another one! I can't bring myself to end it without direct proof, I would always wonder if I made a bad decision.
I'm a full time student so I don't have very much money to spend on this and I would only need to have him watched for one evening to know whether I'm right. If what I suspect is true then the relationship he's in is getting serious enough now to keep him away from his flat most of the time. He's never home whenever I try to call him these days and always has a ridiculous excuse for his whereabouts.
I am very close to his daughter here in the UK and I'm wondering if he is scared of telling me the truth for fear of how she would react.
If anyone can help in any way, perhaps another student, spare a few hours of their time, I would obviously be prepared to meet any expenses incurred and I would be very, very grateful.
Thanks for reading,
Kathy.
I'm a full time student so I don't have very much money to spend on this and I would only need to have him watched for one evening to know whether I'm right. If what I suspect is true then the relationship he's in is getting serious enough now to keep him away from his flat most of the time. He's never home whenever I try to call him these days and always has a ridiculous excuse for his whereabouts.
I am very close to his daughter here in the UK and I'm wondering if he is scared of telling me the truth for fear of how she would react.
If anyone can help in any way, perhaps another student, spare a few hours of their time, I would obviously be prepared to meet any expenses incurred and I would be very, very grateful.
Thanks for reading,
Kathy.