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peepants
06-04-2006, 10:25 AM
I am trying to find my daughter's father, with no help from child support or onine. The only info I have come up with is Seanathan(or Sean) Patrick Smith in Canton,MA.aprox. age 22. I really need to find him for her. Someone PLEASE help!
I just want to add that this is not for $, my daughter would just like to know her father and I would like the same for her and him also. I mentioned child support so I didn't want anyone to think tht was my only reason for looking for him. Child support was just a resourse I used and they couldn't find anything. I did find his mother on peoplefinders.com-sandra smith,canton MA also Boynton Beach FL. but no luck after paying the 10 dollars for the add or #.They want 30 to get a backround check, with school tuition for my daughter I don't really have the extra money to spend right now. So, again if anyone could help it would greatly be appreciated by myself and my daughter who just would like to know her dad.

tiarna
27-04-2006, 08:14 PM
You have a very difficult task and nothing really that anyone can do other than a professional service, I do not know how the USA assists in situations like yours but if child support cannot help I would suspect it is because such a search would be a considerable strain on its resources and so for economical reasons it will not pursue the father. If you feel that the father would be interested then you can try some classified adds in his local area but be sensitive to how you frame why you are searching for him, and it will be more than likely that it will not be him to first come across the add, but an elder family connection or friend. If you know of a particular sport or activity he is associated with try looking up clubs and sports associations etc. Has he a trade?

For the most part you are the only source of information and it seems you do not know this man but I would suggest that you should reanalyse every snippet of information that you can recall, sometimes a reevaluation of all things said, done by this man might give a clue to a clue so to speak. Did he say what his fathers' profession is or anything about his family, looking elsewhere might lead to him. I do not like to say it but it is a reality, but this man may not wish to be found, so your approach should be sensitive to that possibility if you want him to connect in anyway to the child, otherwise I suspect he could bolt to where you cannot find him, if he knows the reason why you are searching for him. Alternatively as last resort a head on approach might be the only way.